Who should pay?

Australia has the 5th highest divorce rate in the world, it currently stands at around 47% *, a few percentage points behind the highest, Sweden at @ 54%. In comparison, other countries like India, Turkey and Italy range from a 2 - 10% divorce rate. Without getting into the how and why's, it is obvious many western countries (but not all) have a very serious problem in parents separating and the welfare of the children from their relationships.


Are the parents to blame for separation after pursuing the dream of a lifelong partnership? The latter most of us were led to believe was possible, in a society where family still holds the high ground with many aspects of life revolving around it. Or is it the shift in societies attitudes towards commitment, loyalty and working at a relationship to blame? Whatever it may be, relationship breakdowns are certainly far more prevalent in a country like ours, indicating our societies values are at fault.


If the view taken is our society is to blame for this high degree of angst, then shouldn't society in whole, take on responsibilty for the financial welfare of our children? In doing so, provide equal opportunity for each and every child from separated parents and removing a major drawback in the present system. If all Australians were made responsible for the financial support of these children, then perhaps all would set about creating a more relationship friendly future in the best interests of children yet to be born.

* (Source: Americans for Divorce Reform)